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Don’t Be Jealous of Others When You Haven’t Done the Work

Writer's picture: Ken LubinKen Lubin


It’s easy to envy someone else’s success, whether it’s a big promotion, a championship win, or a lifestyle you admire. But here’s the truth: before you let jealousy consume you, ask yourself—Have I truly done the work to earn what they have?


The Hidden Grind

  • Success is built on unseen effort: early mornings, late nights, sacrifices, and countless failures.

  • What we often see is the highlight reel, not the hours of training, preparation, and resilience that went into it.

  • Before comparing yourself to others, reflect honestly: Have I put in the consistent effort they have?


Action Over Envy

  • Jealousy wastes energy—use it as fuel to grow instead.

  • Look at what you admire and take actionable steps to improve yourself:

    • Study their habits, discipline, and strategies.

    • Expand your network, refine your skills, or seek mentorship.

  • Start small and commit to daily habits that align with your goals.


Be Honest With Yourself

  • You don’t get what you wish for; you get what you work for.

  • Envying someone else’s success without doing the work is like expecting to win a race you didn’t train for.

  • Define your version of success, create a plan, and execute it with consistency and grit.


Key Takeaway


Jealousy won’t move you forward, but effort will. The next time you catch yourself envying someone, stop and ask: Have I done the work? If not, it’s time to focus on yourself and start the journey to your own success. Replace envy with action, and you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve.


Thanks for reading

Ken

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