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  • Writer's pictureKen Lubin

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Build Real Confidence in Your Abilities

Do you ever feel like a fraud? Like you don’t actually deserve your success and it’s just a matter of time before you're "found out"? This is called imposter syndrome, and it’s more common than you think. Many successful people struggle with these same feelings of self-doubt and insecurity.

The good news is you can move past imposter syndrome by acknowledging those anxious thoughts and then purposefully building real confidence in yourself. Here are some tips:

Recognize Your Accomplishments

Make a list of your achievements, big and small. Look at tangible results and milestones. This evidence proves you do have skills, talent and ability. You earned your spot. When imposter syndrome creeps in, review this list to ground yourself in reality.

Rewrite Your Inner Narrative

The next time you feel self-doubt, pause and reconsider the anxious story spinning around in your head. Then purposefully replace it with a more empowering narrative highlighting your strengths. Speak words of confidence and ability over yourself, even if you don't fully believe them yet.

Visualize Success

Imagine yourself excelling at a task before you start. Envision presenting brilliantly, acing the test or winning the race. Studies show visualization and positive affirmations can actually boost performance and achievement.

Find Your Tribe

Talk to friends, family members and mentors who believe in you. Their external confidence can help build up your internal reserves. Surround yourself with those who champion you, not critics who undermine you.

Remember Comparison Is The Thief of Joy

When you constantly compare yourself to others, you minimize your own gifts. Comparison fixates on what you lack rather than developing your unique strengths. Focus on appreciating your own talents.

Ask For Feedback (and Act On It)

Ask managers, mentors and respected colleagues for honest feedback about your performance and potential. If there are legitimate areas for improvement, put in the work. Strengthening skills will build justified confidence.

Trust the Process:

Remember that self-confidence takes time to build. Be patient and keep taking small steps forward. With consistent effort, imposter syndrome will diminish and your abilities will speak for themselves.

The key to overcoming imposter syndrome is realizing you are not a fraud. Build confidence by focusing on your progress, silencing your inner critic and getting objective input from those around you. Don't let self-doubt hold you back from pursuing opportunities and reaching your full potential. You truly do belong here.


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